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Intimacy after Breast Cancer

Intimacy after Breast Cancer

Dana Donofree
4 min read

At AnaOno, our goal is to help you feel sexy, confident and comfortable as you embrace your survivor, thriver or previvor status. For some of us, sex isn't what it was before cancer, especially not right after receiving radiation treatment or having surgery.

Intimacy after mastectomy can be particularly challenging, but we've found that one of the best ways to prepare yourself for that next step is to find lingerie that boosts your confidence and makes you feel utterly desirable. Check out our top mastectomy bras for getting your groove back. 

SEXY POST-MASTECTOMY BRAS

Gloria Pocketed Wire-Free Bra

Gloria Pocketed Wire-Free Bra

This stunning stretch lace bra features fully lined soft cups that lay smoothly across your chest. The delicate satin bow adds a sexy touch, while the low-cut plunge style shows off extra skin. The Gloria bra also has pockets to accommodate lightweight breast forms or prosthesis.

Jess Triangle Cup Wire-Free Bra

Jess Triangle Cup Wire-Free Bra

This super-soft modal bra comes with removable soft pad inserts to let you control your shape and appearance. It also features a fun geometric lace print that's playful and modern. Use the adjustable straps on the Jess bra to get a comfortable fit.

Wrap Front Wire-Free Camisole

Wrap Front Wire-Free Camisole

Perfect for recovering from mastectomy, lumpectomy, reconstruction or other breast surgery, this underwire-free cami adds a sexy touch to any outfit. Layer it under tops or wear it alone to show off the gorgeous back lace panel and lace band under the bust. This Wrap Front Wire-Free Camisole looks great on any shape and has pockets and stretch fabric to fit inserts or expanders.

SEX TIPS FOR BREAST CANCER SURVIVORS

We can help you look your best, but that's only part of what makes you feel ready for sex after mastectomy or other breast cancer treatments. If you need more than lingerie, we've got first-hand advice from friends and experts who truly understand what you're going through.

AnaOno has touched on the topic of sex after breast cancer a few times within our community, so we wanted tie everything together in one place. Have your way with this information; the safe word is "peaches."

 

Wait! What Happened to Me and Sex?

"As a longtime sex educator and breast cancer survivor, my path gives me the great gift of talking with many women about their sex lives before, during and after cancer diagnosis and treatment. I hear some stories of inspiration and hope, and many more of frustration and pain."

Check out guest post by Barbara Musser, Founder of Sexy After Cancer and a 27-year breast cancer survivor.

 

The Truth About Sex After Cancer 

By Wisdo

Shay Sharpe, of Shay Sharpes Pink Wishes, and one of the beautiful ladies of New York Fashion Week (NYFW) 2017, Shay Sharpe is a two-time survivor of breast cancer. She sat down and talked with Wisdo about what it's like, and how she felt about sex after cancer. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iVquGefpCFg

 

Sex and body image after cancer

By Wisdo

Sexual health is a part of your life before and after cancer. Being a young survivor, it has a big impact on our lives. When your grandma gets diagnosed with breast cancer at 75 years old, (I don't know how sexually active you are at 75), maybe these issues don't pop up. But we are young, and these issues just aren't being talked about enough by our doctors.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fc0seSu2Rqs

  

Sexuality After Breast Cancer

Dana Donofree and Alison Hinch talk with Dr. Timaree Schmit about the impact of breast cancer treatment on sexuality. A diagnosis of breast cancer means many things; while almost all facets of life can be affected by breast cancer, sexuality is the one that doctors are least comfortable discussing with patients. It's often only through the sisterhood of those who have experienced our reality that many women are able to find information, advice and support. 

https://sexwithtimaree.com/2016/08/03/sexuality-after-breast-cancer/

 

Dilation, Vibration, Lubrication...Oh My

Cancer Grad

Once upon a time on a #WisdomWednesday, Aniela from Cancer Grad, who also walk in NYFW, gave us some great tips. She shares all of the lessons she learned with a splash of humor and a whole lot of honesty.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YXyhUqKID-g

 

The Day Cancer Gave Me Permission to Try, Try Again

Sometimes we just need a little hope, like a love story that seems impossible even to the people in it. When Jenna Felder's wrote her guest post, we got just that. Sometimes, you just need to give yourself permission to try again. 

https://www.anaono.com/blogs/dressing-room/66975749-the-day-cancer-gave-me-permission-to-try-try-again-survivor-stories-guest-post

 

YWI presents Love, Sex and Relationships: Body Acceptance After Diagnosis

Living Beyond Breast Cancer

Having positive body image is hard enough in today's world, but a breast cancer diagnosis can make it even harder. Presented by our Young Women's Initiative, this program explored the way young women cope with body image changes after diagnosis and breast cancer's impact on self-esteem, emotional and sexual health, as well as dating and relationships.

 
Dana Donofree
Dana Donofree

Founder and CEO of AnaOno. After a diagnosis of breast cancer in her late 20’s, Dana took her own lived experience and fashion design background and (re)designed intimates for those that have undergone breast surgery. Dana’s story has been published around the world in outlets like New York Times, BBC, Huffington Post, The Today Show, and more.