Sex after breast cancer, everything you need to know to get your confidence back
Sex After Breast Cancer

Sex After Breast Cancer

Dana Donofree
3 min read

At AnaOno, our goal is to help you feel sexy, confident and comfortable as you embrace your survivor, thriver or previvor status. For some of us, sex isn't what it was before cancer, especially not right after receiving radiation treatment or having surgery. 

Sex and body image after breast cancer can be deeply affected by the experience of diagnosis and treatment. Here’s an overview of how these aspects may be impacted: 

Sex After Breast Cancer 

  1. Physical Changes: Treatments like surgery, radiation, and hormone therapy can lead to physical changes that may affect sexual function and desire. For instance, changes in hormone levels or the removal of breast tissue can impact arousal and sensation. Pain or discomfort in the affected areas may also be a concern. 
  1. Emotional and Psychological Impact: The emotional strain of a cancer diagnosis and treatment can affect intimacy. Anxiety, depression, and stress are common and can influence sexual desire and performance. 
  1. Hormonal Changes: Treatments such as chemotherapy and hormone therapy can lead to changes in hormone levels, which may cause vaginal dryness, reduced libido, and other changes in sexual function. 
  1. Communication and Intimacy: Open communication with your partner is crucial. Many people find that discussing their needs, fears, and desires helps maintain intimacy and manage changes together. 

Body Image After Breast Cancer 

  1. Physical Appearance: Changes due to surgery, such as mastectomies or reconstruction, can alter how you view your body. Scarring, changes in breast shape, or unevenness can affect body image. 
  1. Self-Esteem: Physical changes may impact self-esteem and how you feel about your attractiveness. This can affect confidence and how you engage in intimate relationships. 
  1. Adjustment Period: It’s common to go through a period of adjustment as you come to terms with your new body. Support from counseling, support groups, or body-positive practices can help. 
  1. Reconstruction and Prosthetics: Many people explore options such as breast reconstruction or using prosthetics, which can help in restoring a sense of normalcy and comfort with their bodies. 
  1. Personal Growth: Some individuals find that their experience with cancer leads to a deeper appreciation of their bodies and a more profound connection with their sense of self. 

Both sexual health and body image are highly individual experiences, and it's important to seek support from healthcare professionals, counselors, or support groups to address these concerns. Therapy, open communication with partners, and finding supportive communities can all play a role in navigating these changes. 

Intimacy after mastectomy can be particularly challenging, but we've found that one of the best ways to prepare yourself for that next step is to find lingerie that boosts your confidence and makes you feel utterly desirable. Check out our top post-mastectomy lingerie to get your groove back.  

Gloria Lace Bralette 

The Gloria is a stylish wire-free bra with pockets, crafted from luxurious spandex stretch lace. It features elegant decorative seams and is finished with a satin bow for a touch of sophistication. Designed for a customizable fit, it includes adjustable straps and a four-hook back closure for your comfort. The super-soft, fully lined cups provide light to moderate support, ensuring you feel both sexy and comfortable all night long. 

The Gloria's pockets are designed to hold modesty pads, breast prostheses, or F(oo)bs, or you can go without. It’s an ideal choice for those who have undergone mastectomies, lumpectomies, implant or flap reconstructions, unilateral or bilateral mastectomies, or those who prefer a natural fit. 

Gloria Lace bralette on unilateral model, wearing the black gloria pocketed lace bralette looking off to the side

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Narmda Mesh Babydoll 

Offering full coverage support, the Narmda is a convertible underwire-free babydoll that can be easily slipped on over the head or stepped into for convenience. 

The Narmda Mesh Babydoll Dress features pockets designed to hold modesty pads, breast prostheses, or F(oo)bs, or to remain flat. It is suitable for individuals who have undergone mastectomies, lumpectomies, implant or flap reconstructions, unilateral or bilateral mastectomies, or those who prefer a natural fit. 

Narmda Mesh Nighty on flap reconstruction model, wearing the black nighty with the matching black thong smiling looking up out the window

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JamieLee Front Closure Lace Bralette 

Looking for a unique option? Our JamieLee Front Closure Lace Bralette offers a blend of subtle sexiness and cloud-like comfort with its soft, smooth, and breathable design. The pretty lace details enhance its softness and comfort, while the front closure provides added flexibility. 

The JamieLee Bralette features pockets to hold modesty pads, breast prostheses, or F(oo)bs, or to remain flat. It’s ideal for those who have undergone mastectomies, lumpectomies, implant or flap reconstructions, unilateral or bilateral mastectomies, or those who prefer a natural fit. 

Shop the front closure lace jamielee bralette from anaono, flat closure post mastectomy model is wearing the pocketed bralette looking off to the side
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Dana Donofree
Dana Donofree

Founder and CEO of AnaOno. After a diagnosis of breast cancer in her late 20’s, Dana took her own lived experience and fashion design background and (re)designed intimates for those that have undergone breast surgery. Dana’s story has been published around the world in outlets like New York Times, BBC, Huffington Post, The Today Show, and more.